As You Are Counselling
Sex Therapy to Help You Feel More Connected, Comfortable and Confident
Personalized Support to Navigate Sexual Challenges, Enhance Pleasure and Feel Safe Without Shame or Pressure
Daytime, Evening,
Sat & Sun Availability
In-Person &
Online Sessions
Individual &
Relationship Therapy
No Wait List &
Direct Billing Available
When Sex Feels Distant or Disconnected
Sex can be a source of tension, avoidance, or isolating struggles ~ even in loving relationships. Maybe sex feels awkward, pressured, painful, or just not how it used to. Mismatched desire, anxiety, or unspoken difficulties can quietly build walls between you and intimacy. You’re not broken, but it can be incredibly hard to name these struggles, especially when no one ever taught you how.
Does this sound familiar?
- Low or mismatched desire creating tension in relationship(s)
- Performance anxiety interfering with pleasure
- Difficulty communicating about sex, needs or boundaries
- Struggling to feel connected during intimacy
- Feeling shame, guilt, or confusion about your sexuality
- Avoiding sex due to past experiences
We Help You Heal
Rediscover the Joy of Sex
How Sex Therapy Can Support You
We don’t shy away from real conversations, especially the ones that feel hard to have. Welcome to a space where you can talk openly about sex, desire, intimacy, and everything in between ~ without shame, pressure, or judgment. We work with you and/or your partner(s) to rebuild trust, confidence, and pleasure on your own terms.
As you continue your therapy journey, you may notice:
- Feeling more connected, and confident in your intimate life
- Greater emotional and physical intimacy with your partner(s)
- Healing from sexual trauma and experiences
- Clearer communication about sexual needs and boundaries
- Reduced shame, guilt, or confusion around your sexuality
- Improved comfort with sexual desire, arousal, and performance
How Our Sex Therapy Works
Our Approach
We Get To Know You
We take the time to understand you, your experiences, challenges and aspirations. We want to hear your story.
We Develop A Plan
We work collaboratively with you to create a flexible, personalized approach which reflects your goals and needs ~ adapting to your pace.
We Work With You
Every session is a stepping stone toward living the life you want. Our sessions are here to support meaningful, lasting change ~ grounded in who you are and what matters most to you.
We Provide Ongoing Support
We’re here to walk alongside you ~ adjusting the path as your needs evolve, not just now, but as life unfolds. As your ally, we’re committed to supporting you through any new experiences which may arise.
How We'll Support You
Our Commitment
Transparency
We cut the fluff by supporting openness, honest dialogue and integrity. Your comfort and trust are important to us.
Allyship
We are your ally ~ first and foremost. We are empathetic listeners, seek to understand different perspectives, and are present and engaged. We’re here for you.
Inclusivity
We admire diverse cultural backgrounds. Through exploration and transformative practices, we tailor our approach to the unique needs and wants of each individual.
Support
Focus on your counselling journey ~ we’ll do the rest. Accessible office location in Langley, easy scheduling, appointment reminders and optional online counselling. We got you.
How to Get Started
We Make It Easy
Explore Your Options
Explore our Meet Our Team page to filter therapists based on your unique needs, or complete our Match With a Therapist form.
Find the Right Fit
Connect with a counsellor to see if they’re a good fit for you. Curious about more than one? You’re welcome to book with multiple.
Start Your Journey
Already know who you’d like to work with? Book a session anytime through our simple online booking.
Meet Our Therapists Who Specialize in Sex Therapy
More Than a Therapist
We’re Your Ally
Specialized &
Tailored Support
Inclusive, Culturally
Aware & Trauma-Informed
Frequently Asked Questions
Does your team specialize in other treatment areas?
Yes our team does specialize in various treatment areas! Explore our Therapy Services here.
What is the cost of therapy and is it covered by insurance?
We offer in-person and online counselling services for individuals and relationships. See our rates here.
Many benefit programs cover the cost of Registered Clinical Counsellors (RCCs). Please check with your benefits provider to see if this is available to you.
We offer direct billing options to certain insurance companies. If direct billing is not an available option, we provide a detailed receipt following each session. Follow your insurers instructions for submitting the receipt through your extended health benefits plan (often this can be done online).
We invite you to contact us with any questions to explore these options.
What is the rescheduling and cancellation policy?
We kindly require 48-hours notice for cancellation or rescheduling to ensure fairness to you, your counsellor, and other clients. Our cancellation fee is the full cost of the counselling session.
Where is As You Are Counselling located?
Our clinic is located in Langley, next to the 200 Street highway exit. We are easily accessible from Surrey, Maple Ridge, Abbotsford and other surrounding cities.
We also offer the convenience of online counselling for those who cannot make it in-person.
Learn more on our Contact page.
How many sessions does it take before I start to feel better?
This really depends on the issue at hand and the context in which you are experiencing the problem. At the first session, you and your counsellor will discuss the optimal frequency and likely duration of counselling. With more complex and long standing issues, you will likely need more sessions to untangle things and build up internal stability.
Therapy is a process. That said, most of our clients experience some relief early on in the therapy process, and indicate that they are experiencing positive shifts in their lives after 4-6 sessions.
Supporting Healthy, Fulfilling Sexual Wellness
As You Are Counselling
A Safe Space Which Honours Your Needs & Desires
